Not close with my family?

im 17 not very close with my family,i feel like my mom dosen give a **** about me she dosent talk to me or anything but constantly bitches about this and that or my two sisters (one older then me and one younger) dont make an effort.they look at me weird when i say **** like im a ******* alien or something,like they cant relate at all to what im sayin.since im the only male in the household i feel like my mom is not equiped to raise me and did a poor job.i cant get stuff and have to pay for it myself because my mom is cheap,its a different story for my sisters though.my dad has been in and out of my life and in and out of jail and addictions of whatever.the first time he got out he was locked up for manslaugter,he was in for 15 years.im remeber visting him when i was small.so he gets out and assumes the dad role for a few years then gets addicted to herion and gets my family eveicted out of our house because of it,then got locked up again soon after.thats when i began to feel this was because i was old enough to finally comprehend whats was happening and why.idk i just feel like an outsider in my own family.i mean i feel closer to my gfs family then mine.i guess there is an upside i have tons of unsupervised time and do whatever i want when i want,i could leave for a couple of days and come back like noting happend.what do you thin about my situatio? what should i do?